Keep his attention...in your clothes!

Keep his attention...in your clothes

It's not exactly easy being single these days...and dressing to be just the right amount of class and trash is hard! If we are honest we all love to feel sexy at times....and how we feel that way is dependant on what we have defined it in  our own mind and is based on what we have seen projected by society....that being said feeling sexy and confident in your clothes doesn't always mean you attract the man you want.

For years I dressed too sexy....In my mind that is what I felt I was prettiest in...or maybe better said what I felt made me most attractive to men...and to tell the truth I had a ton of men attracted to me....but none I wanted to undress for or be in a long term relationship with...my clothing didn't represent me...it represented what I thought the World wanted from me...then one day I without realizing it starting dressing more reflective to who I am...a little bit sexy, a little conservative, and alot of trouble! lol - while my personality didn't change my pool of prospects did dramatically....all of a sudden I was attracting men I could see as a potential life partner instead of men that I felt I needed to convince myself having them as a life partner was okay. The reality is that I was probably growing up a bit too....and with growing up comes less skin tight mini skirts and more A-line dresses...

Starting Nic & Kat has really made me focus in on my fashion choices over the years.....why I made them, who influenced them, how they have changed, and so on....and I can honestly say I am most comfortable and most happy in my current fashion choices....not only do I feel confident and comfortable....I feel respected by others and respect myself. Clothes don't define who we are but they do play a huge part in how the World defines us.....so keep your clothes on, take them off for the right guy (or girl) if ya want....and remember wear it like you stole it!

Till Next Time,

N

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